“Yes, she was dead. ‘Infant Mortality’, that cruel giant,
how he revels in Cuban homes. He finds a ready entrance through the wide open
doors of ‘nicotine’, ‘alcohol’, and other vices.”
Someone had a baby. She was a laughing, smiling baby, one of
those really cheerful ones that everyone coos over and loves deeply. She died.
The author says he has nice neighbors but he was shocked at
the lack of reverence for this little life now gone. The ‘cigarette fiends’ had
skin pulled taught and their cheeks were sunken, and they laughed about trivial
things that in an American context would be thoroughly discouraged at such a
solemn time.
The baby girl lay in a cheap box with her eyes open, and two
lighted candles, one on each side of the coffin, to lead her soul through the
dark valley of death. The author then begins to mourn for both the living and
the dead, because her parents cannot know that her soul has already found peace
in paradise, simply because they refuse to accept Jesus into their hearts.
The mother of the child was not allowed to attend her
daughter’s internment because of an unknown custom. I can’t even imagine the
pain she must have felt as she watched her little girl’s coffin carried away by
the pallbearers. It is in that moment that the author begins to ask questions.
“Would that innocent little tongue have been taught to speak
the vulgar, obscene language of this wicked place?” Yep.
Would she learn to drink alcohol and smoke at a very young
age? Most definitely, because the other children in this area do.
When she “became old enough to start learning modesty and
virtue”, would she be allowed to go naked on the streets? Of course.
As disturbing and sad as this article was up to now, it gets
worse. The author then begins to describe the way a Cuban cemetery works.
Apparently, at this time at least, death was so common that they didn't have
room for the amount of bodies that needed space in the cemetery. So they would
dig up bodies and leave the bones out anywhere, sometimes even before all the
flesh had decayed because they needed space for the new ones. He then says, “I attended
one funeral where three skulls were dug up in preparing the grave. One was held
up by the hair and recognized by the natives.”
Because I’m out of words, I’ll end quickly. This was so
disturbing to me and I was amazed at the self-control the author had. He was a
missionary in Cuba and he wouldn't interfere with the culture, though if this
was to happen in the United States there would be a huge uproar. I feel like
this blog post didn't do the article justice and I can’t clearly articulate all
that I feel. I just know that I don’t know what I’ll do if I ever have to
encounter something like that in the mission field.
This is really interesting, Sarah, and I can understand the challenge of trying to reflect briefly on what you encountered here. The one question that comes to mind is whether the missionary in question properly understood what was happening, particularly with the disinterment of human remains. There may be no way to know the answer at this point, but it's always worth bearing in mind that things that appear one way to outsider eyes may be something quite different in the perspective of insiders.
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